glad you are seeing those feelings and knowing what feelings are important to act on, or not.

I would suggest that even though you think your brother will push the book aside, what will hurt. If he won't read them anyways, giving him the book won't do anything worse.. but what if he DOES take a look at it out of frustration and needing understanding. You don't even have to tell him why he should read it, but that you wanted him to have it and he could choose to read it if he wants.

that's just my opinion. It is nice to hear that she scheduled MC, and what's scary is that he could go in there like you said with major anger issues and all glimmers will be gone. Hopefully he is able to allow himself to understand.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."