GG, I am glad you vent here, because your Husband could not handle some of this stuff.
I am not sure if you have truly read anything about MLC or not, but I will give you a couple of reminders.
Right now your Husband is trying to be friends with you and that means doing things at is pace, NOT yours. Patience, patience, patience!!!!
When my Husband finally decided to come home again, it still took him 6 long months to actually do it, and it seemed like the longest 6 months ever!
The hardest part of MLC, I think anyways, is that they are the ones who betrayed our trust, had the affair, left our home turned our lives upside down....BUT we, the LBS are the ones who have to help them to rebuild trust with us again.
There is no rushing these things and there is nothing you can do to push him along. You just have to keep on living your life, focusing on yourself and your kids, and give your Husband all the space he needs to figure out exactly what it is that he wants to do.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
