That is really great. I thought you were going to say that she freaked out on you for telling others what is going on, even under a pseudoname. I think the cycle she described fits my wife to a t. The challenge is it is a "2 to tango" cycle that she could stop as well. In the past, my wife has never seen or maybe been willing to admit that part of it.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"