Should I make the break...even though I don't want to D

I don't want to just get strung along. We stand to loose a lot financially with a divorce.

Plus he caome here to the house when he wants, eats here and then lives the life with his friends---no responsibilities

I manage the house, have the dog etc

Me:32
H:33
No Kids
M 10.5 years
T 12 years
Separated 11/08