I am going to try to find some of my old posts so you can link to them. It has been a while and during them I changed my screen name.
So here is what happened Friday. I really appreciated everyones advice because it allowed me to go home without anger. When I got home we were fine, plus we were pretty busy because we had a political fundraiser to go to (I am running for local office) at a friends house. The night went fantastic and my wife and I were really affectionate (not making out in the corner or anything, but holding hands and a nice kiss from her later in the evening, but when some people were still around). I think part of what did it was that I spoke to a group of people (key people in our community) and she showed me respect in a way that I don't often see. Not that she is rude usually, but she is a strong willed person and not usually deferential. When we got home, we had another glass of wine and a great session of ml, even though it was 1 AM and she usually wants to go to bed.
We talked about ml tonight, but her fibroid is causing some discomfort so I may be s.o.l. for a while and I tried to be understanding but in a way that let her know I still want to make an effort if possible.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
