Joyful,

I think he "knows" that I want him home, we've discussed it several times and on no occassion did he sound real positive about it. So I have stopped bringing it up. I'm not going to ask him again. He knows I want him here working on this...but he has his own agenda apparently.

I will never ask him again, and I think he knows that too, and if he doesn't then he's pretty dense. HE has to ask to come home now, I'll never allow him to think he came home as a favor to me. He has to want to be here as much as I think he should be, otherwise, it'll be meaningless.

I have communicated my butt off...I'm not pouring my heart out to him any longer...it's all been said to death.
I'm waiting for HIM to do the talking now and he's NOT doing it.
He wants everything to be simple, smooth, easy and painless for himself....can't blame him...because I'm getting into the painless for me too mode.

H has until Oct. 19th to get out of his...self protection mode because on Oct 20th things are going to go so dark, he'll think someone shut the moon off.
T2