I'm with M on this one. I also think you need some more time beyond your November episode in his mind. Give it more of the good times and good memories before you say something about it.
Until then, BOB may have to be your friend for a while. Sorry to say that but...
I'm with you though. I feel it.
One suggestion that seemed pretty good to me was to substitute something for my regular habits. For example, everytime I wanted to do something for WAS or was thinking about sex, I should do something else for me. I'm working that path and to tell the truth, it's kind of fun. You may want to consider it.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
