Hey I was referring not to the big overall situation, I know you are not yet going there, but when she acts cold to you like she did with her EGF and she didn't even look at you when you went there. I would ask hey whats up..are you upset about something...did I piss you off some how?? I mean immediately deal with the small fires that occur before they get larger. Your posts talk about these situations but you don't say whether or not you talked to her about them. You just talk about how you interpret them.