I understand how the "leaving" sucks...and it certainly does stink that h wasn't up for much this weekend being sick and all..but here's anther way to look at it...
he may have been sick and lethargic but at least he came to be there with you...he could have easily stayed in bed at his apartment eating chicken soup.
sorry if that sounds pissy...I know I've felt like you do many a time and many a time I was told much the same thing...and ya know what? it's true...he didn't HAVE to come but he did.
while h still didn't live here but we had started to spend time together once again...he came one night to spend time with me...rented a movie and he fell asleep...to say I wasn't thrilled is putting it mildly...h knew I was bothered and said...are you mad that I fell asleep...I was honest and said...not mad just dissapointed.
try not to be mad at h when he's not feeling well...he doesn't HAVE to be there...give him a little credit for not banging in sick.
Quote: He said, "I think I'd feel better if I had a hug." So I gave him a half hearted one.
half hearted hugs will not get you by for long....
be loving and others will want to be loving in return...be cold and "half hearted" and it's likely that you will be met with indifference as well.
