Rachel...

The demon cell phone...oh yeah, my enemy #1...I hear ya loud and clear on that one.

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He sounds so convincing, and I find myself wondering if I'm crazy.

It's like that old joke, "Who are you gonna believe, me Or your lying eyes?"


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Is my gut telling me something, or am I just being paranoid??

If YOU can answer that one, share it with the rest of us because for all of us on this side of the equation THAT IS the $64,000 question.

Here's a little something I've told my H and repeatedly tell myself when I get that icky feeling in my stomach like I'm being 'conned' again....I chant to myself, IF he's lying to me now, when there's NO reason left to lie, than he is only lying to himself, I'm out of the available to be conned loop." It doesn't matter if he's lying if I don't buy the lie, ask for clarification or refute the statement. HE KNOWS if he's lied, and lying doesn't make HIM feel good. So NOT lying is a place he'll have to get to all by himself eventually. If you doubt the verasity of his statement, accept the fact that you think you've just been lied to and let it go, chalk it up to his still being in the fog for now.

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Do you ever trust once it has been so badly broken??

I sure as hell hope so or we're all wasting valuable days of our life here.

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