True Love or True Fog? Part II - The Fertile Void

[Silver Fox]

I really, really wanted for H to make the next move. As many people on this board have said about their own sitch - if he wants this D so badly he should do the work - but his continued involvement with Catbitch along with his careless spending (including his "bankruptcy" scare tactic) leaves me no choice.

My L suggested we get to mediation ASAP. It's required anyway in this state with a contested D. So it's set for March 30. I don't know if H knows yet or not. I figure it's not my job to tell him. L says I'll get something in the mail from the mediator - basic info - and I need to fill out the Financial Declaration forms.

I'm writing down lots of questions and closer to the time will drill my L with them. If anyone has any pointers I'd appreciate them!