Renee` your H maybe has some similarties of both...but he does have some confusion.....if he says ILYBNILWY. I guess some of them do go get the D fast track. He seems his mind is made up but he cant stick w/ one GF..the best thing to do it really let him be
I went about 4 months of not sending him tm or phone calls except for emegencies. It was pure hell and hurt sooo much...he was very deep with OW, as he pulled away it hurt so much. He lived with her, took her on expensive trips , they worked together, went everywhere together. They were always in walmart!The spending was horrific. He moved her into the same apt we lived when we 1st were married.....ouch
Then he began to find reasons to contact me and i slowly began to answer his tms or emails he tm more and more hiding in the bathroom from her!I always told everyone he must be in the bathroom as a joke....turns out it was NO joke!!!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest