Rachel,

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He is too fearful of having history repeat itself by coming home and then leaving again. Not sure what
it will take to change his mind about that.


Yep, that's exactly where my H is at. I've asked my H what is it he's 'waiting' for in order to make a decision. He has no answer. Soon, very soon, no answer will be necessary because in my mind the date is fast approaching to poop or get off the pot...and that date comes in mid-Oct on our anniversary, whether he knows it or not.
T2