Alison, I agree with Cinders that it is good that you and H are able to discuss the children and it is pleasant.

Don't know what to say regarding the L's .

If your H does want to marry the OW he sure is taking a long time about it...

So, what have you been doing for yourself these days?

As for your marriage, all I can say is to put it in God's hands...sometimes he takes away to give you something better or to make you grow...or BOTH. Whatever the case, just keep along the path and stop to smell the roses along the way....

I'm rooting for you!

Hugs,
Valentine

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller