I'm not trying to be too 'cold' but she gets friendlier and friendlier in her messages like she is fishing for a conversation. In the past - I would participate and eventually the conversation would die out with her being mad. So now I'm not participating. I intend whatever conversations we have to be on my terms, and when I'm feeling positive and want to actually discuss things.

I haven't seen her in person since last Saturday, and I'm going to make a short/sweet trip by her work to hand her the check for D(1)'s co-pay, and then walk out without discussing anything with her - just smiling, telling her to have a good day, and then moving forward.

"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."