Thank you Sara. I don't know if you've ever posted to me before, but I appreciate the comments.

You know what I find funny. On the Infidelity board, it's a lot of "take a stand, be firm, confront" and on the Newcomers board where there are a lot of infidelity sitch's, it's "be kind and patient". On the WAS board (often with infidelity involved), it's "you can't control what they're going to do and they need to figure it out on their own so be kind and patient".

Just an observation.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.