Hey Lisa, not sure if we cross posted there, but sorry to hear about the D, but its amazing how gracious you are being about it. Could you email him in the week before his dinner in a kind of friendly neutral way, to warn him on the D papers, then you dont have to actually bring it up at dinner !?? Hmm.. Venus is going retrograde on the 6th.. supposed to be retracing of past issues in love and money and for Pisceans, could bring someone back to you from the past, but also, will bring up issues that were a theme 8 years ago, when Venus was also in this part of the chart (anything happen with you and H 8 years ago!?). I mention all of this, just as its his birthday, you are going for dinner and he gets his D papers and just as Venus reverses!