I dont know what happened to my xh. He has spent some money, but mostly on taking out the women to clubs or eating out alot with them. He bought himself some new shirts (trying to look good at work.lol, he is a supervisor over maint and cleaning at a nursing home),(before this happened, and before he became a supervisor, he wore blue pants and plain blue shirt). AND he NEVER worked out. NOW he doesnt miss a day working out AND he lays in the tanning bed! Now that is just plain FUNNY! He also bought some cologne, but thats it far as I know about spending. He just lives pay check to pay check though. He even admitted that to me once. He doesnt want anything to do with me but he does talk to our son almost every day, and is taking him fishing. There has been women since day one. Right now he has one staying with him. Shes 26, he is 41-in april. I figure he IS in MLC, because of the young women he is dating.
