I spoke to H about putting our home on the market. The homes in our neighborhood are taking 1 - 1 1/2 yrs to sell. That would put S17 graduated.

H says he wants to want until S17 is "at an age that he can handle the sale of the house". WTF! When S17 was 15 H thought he was at an age to meet the woman that his dad had been having an affair with only 3 weeks after H had walked out on us and had changed S17's world as he knew it forever.

Does anyone understand this logic? I can't afford my home and H knows it but he won't allow us to put the house on the market.

Why?