snodderly, thank you for waking me up when I need it. I have not been calling him NEAR as much. I only called him 1 time in 2 weeks, the other time I talked with him was at court. BUT I know I shouldnt call him at all! You are probably right, he probably does tell her everything and she probably is trying to get at me. Even HE said that. I am sure he tells her he loves her or she wouldnt be living with him. BUT I dont understand why he just doesnt tell me? Why isnt he honest with me? He has NO reason to hide anything now, we are divorced.