an interesting thought I just had...I used to tell my husband I wanted a divorce and storm out of the house with every major argument, but never left or followed through with the threat.
I honestly thought he had no reason to complain and that everything was his fault.
Through reading and counseling I think...WOW NO WONDER HE MOVED OUT
it helps me understand his reluctance to work on our relationship
every time we have an event where intimacy begins to be re-established he becomes cold and distant...is it true regret or is it fear.
I know I am scared to give it another try because if I give it all my effort and it still doesn't work out then it is "THE END"
Me:32 H:33 No Kids M 10.5 years T 12 years Separated 11/08
