We are in such a similar sitch. Just keep what you are doing and learn from my mistakes. You can read my post earlier but I broke down and did everything wrong today. Keep up the detachment but don't be cold as I have been and I am afraid it just made her mad. I now realize it and will continue with the space without the coldness. Just keep listening to the experts and even to re newbies like me and learn from my mistakes. Keep it up and good luck!
