Being content for now.

[kissak]

Thanks A new 2moro....I had to sit next to him for quite a while at tkd today. My son had his testing today.

It was odd. First off, my H texted me today at 12:15pm to say Good Morning, which really irritated me. All I said was "afternoon". He came back with "oh, sorry thats right, afternoon". Which means, he had just gotten up. Whatever.

Then he wanted to know if I was on my way to tkd, well I didnt answer his call or text because I have my phone on vibe, because I dont care if I get his calls or not. I get there and he asks "what? no hug?" I looked at him and said "nope". Walked in and sat down. Well, he makes a few comments to me such as "you have somthing on your face and your hair is blowing across your nose,"....then I had my phone and I turned it down, well, then he wants to know if Im expecting a call or something, I just said nothing. Well a few times I had looked at my phone simply because I didnt want to talk to him and he started asking why I was so interested in my phone and who was I expecting a phone call from....he was smiling the whole time. Then my phone rings and i walk outside to answer it and HE FOLLOWS ME smiling! Wanting to know who it is! I told him that it was none of his business!! It really ticked me off cuz I dont ask him who is calling him!! Well the whole time if I even look at my phone he would snicker!

I dont really understand the point of that whole thing. Can anyone else??

He wanted to act as if nothing was wrong. He even tried flirting a little. He even made a sexual comment to me.

Ugh. He cant seem to just sit there and behave without acting stupid.

Then he left after the test and texted me a "buzz" and to "drive safe".

Seems like the same crap all over again.

Im proud, I said hardly two words to him and only answered him if he asked a question.

I havent heard from him since then and probably wont because he has a new girlfriend already taking care of him again.

A new 2moro, I do realize that he will never change. I do get what his therapist says...that he can handle black and white, but not the gray areas....He likes being with me and all, but if its in the marrige context, he is in the gray. Now i guess he is back in the black/white and he is happy for awhile....till he thinks I may be moving on and dating someone else.

Will this ever end???