Long story, I've been married for almost nine years and we have 3 kids 9,7 and 4, I noticed a change in my wife after she decided not to be a stay at home mom,she got a job and 4 months later she had an emotional affair with my best friend, we went to MC, it got better but not the same as before, this was in 2-07, in 11-08 she dropped a D bomb on me and some how I get her to stay, the first two weeks where GREAT, went to MC again, I was really worried at this point but she seemed ok, she also in the same time frame changed her silly meds, not sure what kind. which brings me to the last couple of weeks, on 2-13-09 she stated that she wanted a D again, every thing went smooth as far a two adults could ask for as in money, time with kids and even the backing down of the D into a separation, I have been supportive as I can be to her and I still let her know I love her and I really hope this works out, she agreed, she has been very open and honest as far as I can tell....This is where I need help, I want our marriage to work and need guidance on how to best handle this situation...........
