Thanks for the words. I decided I would not tolerate the situation any longer. Why pine after someone who does not want to be with you, and has no respect for you (of course WW has zero respect for herself.)
It dawned on me I can do anything I want any time I want. No more dancing monkey waiting for permission.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09