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Well honey, that just goes to show that you never know...I am proud of you for entertaining the idea of another man. That is a BIG step.

So, now onward and upward! Carpe Diem!

Love you, mean it!

Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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Hi Cinders,

Thanks for your advice on my thread and your "clarification".

I also wish you a great week-end. xxx

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Hi guys !!

Just got home from a dinner party at a friend's house....BOY I think it's written on my forehead that I'm ready to start dating !!! ahahhahaha \:\)

There were 3 couples and myself tonight and one of the men seemed to be totally 'into' me. He is my friends' husband, but I haven't seen him in quite a while...my friend is young and GORGEOUS !!! And he's very good looking himself. He told me it was 'me' time and that I should enjoy life ! He even said he'd see if he could set me up with a nice guy (hahaha), said he knew many single guys and that he was sure he'd find me a nice one ! ;\)

Well, it was just a fun evening and we all laughed so much and had such a great time !!!

I think people are starting to see the 'new ME' ! I think I have finally turned a corner !!!

Take care xxx


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Originally Posted By: whitelight
Are their two guys? Is this a different guy than did your shelves?

Well, I'm proud of you for trying something new, even if it didn't turn out. It took a lot of courage to try something new and that is awesome!


Nope, just one guy Whitelight.... !

And yes, I think I'm proud of myself for trying something new and different to what I would usually have done...it's nice to have dared to be different for myself. It was long overdue !! xxx


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Thanks Kissak...Valentine and True !!! Nighty night to you all !!! xxx


Love Cinders xxx

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Wow Cinders I loose track for a few days and look what I missed

Hope you've stopped beating yourself up now.


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So this morning I woke up got online and you wouldn't believe it but an old flame logged on and since VERY VERY LONG started chatting online with me, he told me he truly was so in love with me and that it could have been so good ....my goodness, I think it's even obvious ONLINE that my forehead has stamped on it...'READY TO DATE' ! hahahahaha \:\)

Oh well, it's doing me good I suppose, all this flattery. Nice to feel a woman again, nice to get some attention after so long. ;\)

I haven't thought much about H to be honest, I often catch myself no longer thinking of him. I think that's good !!


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My neighbour's house alarm went off just a little while ago, and yes, they had a break in ! YUK !!!

My neighbour came over with her kids, whilst her H waited for the police at their house...the poor kids were so scared !

I'm home alone tonight, so I hope the thieves are long gone by now. My house has fences all over and I have a big tall wooden gate, so I hope I won't be a likely target...but it's still scary.

I offered my neighbours to come and stay over if they wish, but I think they prefer to jump right back on the horse.

I feel so sorry for them, they've been refurnishing their house and have had such bad luck !!!

Take care xxx


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Cinders, flattery is nice...and you WILL date one day when you are ready and you meet a nice man.

I am so glad you are not thinking of your H much...that is a good thing...it means you are healing and growing!

I hope you have had a great weekend!

Hugs,
Vali


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Yay for the old flame! This is getting exciting!

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