Help! Explain that to me in layman's terms, as I am astrology stupid and since I am in the same cycle as you and K, I want to understand. Had a strange phone call with DH today. My part of the call was over 30 minutes and felt weird, but i cannot explain how it was weird.
I got patience down, God has really helped me with that. But, I have to admit, it flags ever now and again.
You know that I will support you whatever you decide. You are my friend and I love you. However, I do think that FINALLY your H is starting to get it. I know that even if you file, you still have a year wait. I know you are tired and frustrated and want to move on with life, whatever moving on entails. Trust me, I know, I really do. But,(and you knew there was going to be a but) you have admitted you are not welcoming, you are distant, you want more and you want him to figure it out. Sweetie, I don't think he knows the new Maria and you scare him now. You are strong, confidant, independent. you have proven you do not need him. I get the feeling that he NEEDS to be needed. Not for what he can provide financially, but for who he is.
I remember you having a quote on your FB that said " I don't love you because I need you, I need you because I love you." Does he know this? Have you gotten so far from that that you can not find a little bit of that love to show him?
Living God's blessings with grace an ddignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
