Oh, that was my first thought guys. Been back at her normal work location and all the triggers that I'm sure go with it and working with EGF. I would suspect that some how OM came up in conversation with EGF and a comment was made like "why don't you call him" or something like that.

It's also funny that for a number of days earlier this week she was completely attached to her laptop while at home and would lock it when she went outside to smoke, and I found that weird. If I had to guess, the contact happened early this week and then things didn't go as she wanted either Wed evening when I was out of town or Thurs at work.

The way she's acting I don't think it went the way she thought it would. I know OM is "in love" (gag me) with the next victim, so maybe W didn't get what she was expecting from the conversation and that's why she's so down.

Oh well, she was pretty up this morning and while at the college visit. S16 was riding in front with me because it's a small car and he's BIG and there were A LOT of times I'd look in the mirror and W was looking at me. Don't know if she's thinking about fessing up or what. We went to lunch and had a good time, but as soon as we got home, W got quiet again.

I know she's having her monthly fun, which doesn't help things, but I can only hope that with this probable contact and how she's obviously feeling right now she'll figure it out.

I did book the trip to Fla for May. Got the flights this morning. Got her some tanning visits to prepare for the trip. Go a head and 2x4 me. I know. But I just felt like I needed to try one last time to give us another chance to connect like we do when we're away from here.

And the funny thing is I'm not too upset by what I almost sure was the contact. It's almost easier than limbo land when you know something almost for sure. How weird is that?


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.