well, I royally screwed up! I called her and got into with her over her being so short and rude to me. Then I brought up the OM again after telling her that I wouldn't say another thing about it. Dang!!!! She hung up on me and then I texted her to quit doing this to me. She needed to make up her mind on what She wanted to do and that this was killing me and the family. (why in the heck do I do this?) She just sent me a text saying so much for my promises and that ok fine, she will do what she wants? Not sure what to do now?