Well we met and talked about all of this stuff. I stayed as calm as possible considering everything. She is set on moving out and is willing to provide support but wants it in the form of alimony and not child support. I'm against that idea because, one the support needed is for the kids and two alimony is taxable to me where child support isn't. So we have some work to do there to come to an agreement on that issue. She is wanting visitation somewhere along the lines of every other weekend and every Wednesday which is fine with me.

She has several business trips lined up over the next three weeks so it will give us some time by ourselves which is good I think. I telework and my boss has asked me to come back to the office for about a six week period to cover for another employee who is leaving. However that would mean I would be living clear across country and I'm not sure that is such a good idea.

S4H