Have to post this, W came by to pick up the kids, taking D9 to her basketball game and D7 and D7 to their game later today. W walks in with 4 big boxes full of Girl Scout cookies, I ask her whats going on, the purchase forms were to be turned in at the beginning of February.
What she did was buy a bunch of boxes from the girls and wanted me to take some to work and have the kids sell some to the neighbors, I said I already told the people at work I wasn't selling any Girl Scout cookies this year, so they bought theirs from other people and we don't have a lot of neighbors to sell to unless I walk around the neighborhood with the girls, she got all bitchy and said fine, stormed out of the house taking the boxes of cookies with her.
I could feel the anger building up inside of me, I came off like a jerk, but this was her project to complete with the girls. I have enough on my plate to deal with - I want to send her a e-mail telling her this, but I don't know.
Coach of D9 baskball team, has informed me that W is brining OM to games. I don't know, I have never seen him, coach says the way she acts with this guy he suspects its him.
Thank you for checking in on me.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
What she did was buy a bunch of boxes from the girls and wanted me to take some to work and have the kids sell some to the neighbors, I said I already told the people at work I wasn't selling any Girl Scout cookies this year, so they bought theirs from other people and we don't have a lot of neighbors to sell to unless I walk around the neighborhood with the girls, she got all bitchy and said fine, stormed out of the house taking the boxes of cookies with her.
I don't think you were a jerk at all, although your W was acting like one. Like you said that was her project and she shouldn't be palming it off to you. D9 and I sold ours, you're supposed to take orders actually instead of just buying a bunch and selling them you know.
That is so hard when someone is trying to control you and not letting it upset you and just not letting them. But just part of life I guess. Just try to not let her upset you too much. I don't think she's worth it--at least not lately.... Karen
Does the pain ever go away I'm tired and feeling a little melancholy Does the pain ever go away
Long Long Time Linda Ronstadt
Love will abide Take things in stride Sounds like good advice But there's no one at my side
And time washes clean Love's wounds unseen That's what someone told me But I don't know what it means
Cause I've done everything I know To try and make you mine And I think I'm gonna love you For a long, long time
Caught in my fears Blinking back the tears I can't say you hurt me When you never let me near
And I never drew One response from you All the while you fell Over guys you never knew
And I've done everything I know To try and make you mine And I think it's gonna hurt me For a long, long time
Wait for the day, you go away Knowing that you warned me Of the price I'd have to pay
And life's full of loss Who knows the cost Living in the memory Of the love that never was
Cause I've done everything I know To try and change your mind And I think I'm gonna miss you For a long, long time And I've done everything I know To try and make you mine And I think I'm gonna love you For a long, long time
I felt like that a year ago. But not anymore. Now I'm in a stage where I feel ripped off that I have an H that just is so lacking. I know I deserve more, and you do too. ((((Jeff))))
