Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Hi JDollie. If your gut is telling you to wait, then maybe you should. If it's fear driving you, then you need to take a look at it. One thing I know for sure, make sure whatever decision you make it's for YOU and in no way to draw a 'response'.
I know that control is an illusion and often we do things that are intended to draw a response and the exact opposite happens than what we were hoping for. Sometimes the biggest f*up creates the changes we hope for.
The thing is, we don't know what is going to do what. It's totally out of our control so trying to control the uncontrollable is insanity.
I'm not sure exactly to know what the RIGHT thing to do is, but I would think that with good introspection and thought you will find the answer that is right for you.
I struggle with this all the time. When do you act, and when do you let things happen?
Good luck.
MySitch Me-47 STBXW-41 D-5 S-8 ILYBNILWY-01/08 Want a D- 01/09 Physical Sep-01/10 D filed-06/10 Got 50% custody=09/11 Ride that wave!
I agree with the others. You've been at this for 2 years. What's another month?!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
