Right, went to counselling today.

was very difficult for him and he still can't tell me what it is that has made him feel like this. He said he is upset that he hadn't fixed it as he felt he was the fixer in our relationship and he hates confrontation.

He didn't want to say anything in past few weeks in case he was just confused. Said that when he sold the business, it cleared his head to realise that he was unhappy in our marriage. He was hoping it would just go away.

We have another appointment in 10 days and he knows he has to tell me and open up. I didn't realise how difficult he said he feels opening up.
We will try going out ourselves a couples of times and see how we get on.

We are to try find a solution to being comfortable with each other. He said he did feel comfortable but I don't.

He said I was still his best friend

So is this where I really do GAL????

I think its quite positive. What do you guys think?


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids