n, I think your h sent you this last email. I also think he's just letting you know that he claimed it as alimony on his taxes. He's the the "business" mode right now. I have a feeling that his paying you alimony really burned him up. He had hoped to be free and clear of you and I think what he wrote is just letting you know he's happy it's over and he doesn't have to give you any more money. You know what I'd do? I would send an email to him and thank him for setting up the payment and the reminder about the taxes. Keep it very short and business-like...just like he did.
N, please do not allow this note to bring you down. I know you are depressed, but you've got to let him go a bit more. He's on a journey not only on this earth but on the Mother Ship as well. He's got to complete it and with the final payment being made, he may now be able to complete it without harboring a lot of resentment towards making the payments. Let it go....he's a lost soul for now.
I saw where you will be getting some nasty weather...we are due to get it this evening/tomorrow. Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
