I dont care what anybody says this pain is different than any pain she went through in our M. This is worse. All she had to do is say something sooner. I cant say anything to fix this. All she had to do is say SOMETHING.
I feel your pain Noedphi, I really do. I have thought those very thoughts many times, and I pray that God softens W's heart so I can have an opportunity for amends.
That's the only advice I have for you, pray for a change in heart, because there really is nothing else you can do.