A new phase..Future uncertain-imagine that!

[Vdad]

Update,

Well...not sure if I have reached the end of my marriage here but here are the facts:

Had to drop by the house yesterday and she showed up after an interview she had. We sat down and talked and I confronted her on all of her post EA activity with new men. She had crossed a boundary established for the Sep. i couldn't just live with this any longer. She didn't say much other than it was innocent.

I asked her not to insult my intelligence as we both know that isn't true. I told her she was a married woman and it was innappropriate to say the least. I told her I am NOT ok with it. She then told me she wanted a divorce. I said I didn't want to stand in the way of her hapiness and hoped she found what she was looking for.

She told me she just doesn't have loving feelings for me anymore and didn't want to remain in the marriage. We talked about a few different things but I left ater that exchange.

On one hand it is very sad as I feel after the damage of both of our EAs we didn't do anything to try and repair the marriage. That will always be a point of regret going forward but I can't control her, don't want to.

So on we go apparently. She did have some weird body language when I asked her that if I moved on and was with someone else if she would be okay with that? She said she would want me to be happy but her BL was showing discomfort.

Well all you sage veterans of DB...What now. We will looking to do this as low budget as possible..What steps now? Very depressing weekend and I am alternating between relief and huge sadness.

Vdad