TCBTE, My H is holding on because of our farm. As long as there is no divorce he can continue. He tried real hard to give it all up and convince himself that he's done that and it's now time to do something else. He had every opportunity to end it all in the last week. It didn't happen. For whatever reason. And your right, who knows what they are REALLY thinking if at all. It's just so frustrating!!!

My H moved to our camper in Apr.07 then moved to town Aug07

Last edited by theotherhalf; 02/28/09 01:44 PM.

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!