TOH - well, he's only been out of the house since July-----but I guess the separation started before then.
It is very frustrating!! However, lucky or not, that my H is desperate to hold on to time with our kids----I think it makes it harder because NO contact is impossible. At this point, I think he's desperate to show that he can be a good father and be screwing OW. Since he's a lawyer----I KNOW he's mostly worried about what could happen to him in any kind of settlement. I might be wrong----he really may not be THINKING at all, but you know..................I also know about the guilt calls........
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
