I'm with ya LIS. Some times I'm ready to say F it all and then I get a second wind and can continue on.
EGO. I think that's one of my W's biggest problems. Maybe mine too. If W let go of OM and the A feelings and worked on our marriage, then she'd have to admit to herself that she F'd up, and I don't know if she's got it in her. Her whole family never takes responsibility for anything that goes on. It's always someone else's fault. I sure wish W's Grandmother was still alive. She'd kick W's A**. Grandma was the only one that was stable and RESPONSIBLE in W's life. And she LOVED me. Oh well.
Keep your chin up. I'll remind you what I remind myself constantly. You can look at yourself in the mirror and KNOW that you're doing the RIGHT thing. If it doesn't work, at least you can sleep at night.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.