Thanks Flynn. I decided against checking, but I did see this other admin and made a comment to W about it and she made some comment back that makes me believe she did have lunch with her.

W is a mess. The last couple days she's been DOWN and DISTANT. I already posted about Thurs and her not responding to me and how distant she was. Last night was WORSE. Around lunch time I sent her an IM telling her I was going to go out to dinner and she was welcome to join me if she'd like. "I think I'll skip it tonight, I wanted to do some cleaning".

Later in the day, after my meeting I stopped by her office. She was outside smoking with EGF. I walked up to the smokers hut and EGF was more friendly than W. Don't get me wrong, W talked to me, but EGF actually smiled at me and talked to me.

I went into W's office after her smoke was over and she was really distracted. While I was there she got an IM. She said it was her boss and made some comment about him but then a couple minutes later her phone rang and she didn't answer it.

Last night when she got home she was still pretty distant. I went out and when I got home she was sitting, slumped down in the couch and when I sat down she was staring outside and then down at the ground quite a bit. So I sat there for a few minutes and then went upstairs to watch t.v.

W slept on the couch last night.

So I have no idea what's up with her. Could be a number of things. Could be she has been NC for quite a while and then made contact and is depressed because OM rebuffed her. Could be that she's been in regular contact all along and is trying to go NC and she's in WD. Could be that she's recognized that she wants to make it work and is struggling with that. Could be that EGF is planting chit in her head and she's struggling with that.

So this morning we're up a little early to take S16 to a college visit. W comes up into the bedroom to get ready and is the nicest, sweetest thing you've ever seen. Today will be interesting.

And I thought I was on a roller coaster. She's one messed up person.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.