Yellowrose remind me again how long your h was gone. How long from the time he moved out completely? You never divorced did you? My exh wanted a divorce almost immediately. He waited 60 days because he said his lawyer advised him to. I was wondering what the difference is between a WAS and a MLC spouse? Some of the things that have been said, my xh has said also. Example: "I am not going to answer to no one, I am going to live the rest of my life in peace." "I want a simple life", "No one is ever going to tell me what to do again". Oh, and something else. My xh told my co-worker/boss, that "I WAS MARRIED 20 YEARS!!!!....as if to say that was FOREVER and he didnt want to be married anymore. In fact that is one of the things he said to me. I am sorry, I just dont want to be married anymore. (well cry me a river!!!!) <------ my thoughts .
Also guys would you all pop over to my thread (here in MLC) and read my story. I reposted it and tried to give ALL the details. I would like some more thoughts please.
