Would you mind sharing more of your relationship's history with us? How it began, how it developed, and where it is today? This would help a lot in gaging what kind of advice to give you as far as where to go from here.
Take care,
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007