{{{V}}} actually YOU told me the legal starting point in this state way back when..LOL..so yeah..my lawyer actually will laugh at that for sure..it just annoys the CRAP out of me that my hub thinks, what? I don't "DESERVE" to be taken care of, he doesn't want anything to interfere with his "new me time and money"?? I mean..that's the part that is just annoying and has always been something that he is against, the alimony part..I just shake my head about it!?! GOOD advice not to keep it rolling around in my brain, and I won't and already am not going to dwell on it cause I know it's a ridiculous "offer" LOL!

I have already decided I'll just talk to my lawyer and, for as much as I can, let him deal with the ins and outs of it..

{{{Kassie}}} yeah I do want the peace of mind for sure, but, at the same time, I also want peace of mind for the FUTURE, if it was just me I was having to think about, it would be very different, but with my 2 kids and one still gonna be at home for the next at least 5 years..I just can't allow him to try to doormat me. I'm just hoping to find a middle ground for my sanity LOL \:D

Anyway..thank you all for listening and helping me with that..and thank you to AMY for getting mad with me and looking up stuff for me..LOL..that was so great and I appreciate it more than you know!!!

Tawnya


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