FIB, whoo hooo for first place! Brings back memories of my son's pinewood derby (except the first place part-lol).

Man, your wife is really pis*ing me off! She is the freakin' adult here. She must be the one to teach them how to behave in life. They need to feel safe with her. They need to be able to look to her for comfort. Not to add to their sadness.

FIB, love on them extra hard this weekend. Hang in there, my friend. They need you right now to be the parent. She obviously is not up to the job.