Sorry about the "bad news papers" - upside I agree with V that there are usually state laws about things - don't worry until you confirm that detail. I also agree, be prepared to fight for what you want and then step away from it. It is all a game anyway, there is a lot of negotiation which means you don't have to accept anything and you can ask for anything.(just don't expect to get it all)Also, remember this -how badly do you want the separation? I wanted my peace of mind more.
