Slowly but surely - detach and 180

[hopefulinEG]

I have been wondering lately whether it is a good or bad idea to try to initiate some intimacy.

If that's a 180 for you I would say try it and see what happens. If one of her complaints is not enough, then you may see a change as a result. Just be prepared, since you may get turned down.

Actually initiating isn't a 180 because I was always the initator. But that was because she stopped initiating after getting turned down so often. She basically waited for me to initiate every time.

But is still a 180 for me to be more interested in ML.