I am sorry about your sexy voice guy not wanting to date you anymore until you are divorced. Well, I really don't know why he has to wait until the papers are signed. You don't really have had any marriage for ages. But if that is his beliefe then that's it.
I am also sorry about your H making you sad. Yes, these MLCers are nuts and they don't even realise that they hurt us all the time. It is the same with my H. And yet they don't want to let go completely. It is very strange that your H asked about the wedding pictures above all! But he is right, they are a part of his life.
