Hey ((Julia)), I was hoping a man would post their thoughts on your options. But I agree with Ali, to wait for him & to not mention the "if you want to talk".

I am currently reading an interesting book "The Men We Never Knew". Talks about how men stuff their feeling & have been taught to - to be a man. And when they do show feelings they are putting themselves out of their comfort zone & vulnerable to rejection. Don't know if it's true or not - cuz I'm not a man. But sounds believable. And my learning about men continues .....

Your date sounded very nice \:\)

Me39, XH45
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Divorced 6/4/09
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