T2, I wish you would take a moment to visit my thread. I am just waiting, waiting. Don't know if I should be calling my H or what. He is with the OW, says he loves her, says he wants a D and will file soon. So, I don't call him, but will talk to him if he calls or emails. I really don't know what to do. He is in full MLC and really doesn't care who thinks what about him. He has alienated friends and collegues and has one friend and OW that he talks to. My two boys don't want to talk to him. I guess I have adopted an "I'm moving on" attitude... but I don't really feel that way. I feel like a piece of trash, thrown away. Anyway, any thoughts, help, etc. will be appreciated. I'm over on MLC forum.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.