One of the things you need to realize is that alot of the stuff you need to do is for YOU not the R. Doing things that make you happy will make you more attractive, is the hope, to your wife. The other side to that is if it doesn't work you are in a better place mentally.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
